Everybody Wants to Talk

Everybody wants to talk, but few take the time to listen. Our human nature pushes us to speak—to share our thoughts and opinions. Yet, when we fail to listen, we miss out on understanding the world and those around us.

Edgar H. Schein, in his book “Humble Inquiry,” highlights the power of listening. He explains that real learning and connection come from being curious and genuinely listening to others. When we practice humble inquiry, we set aside our need to speak and instead focus on asking questions that foster trust and understanding.

Talking may fill the silence, but listening fills the soul. So, how often do you really listen? If you want to truly know others, you must first be willing to hear them. What could change in your relationships and understanding if you practiced the art of listening more?

Brent Colby

Brent trains leaders throughout the Pacific Northwest and is on staff at Evergreen Christian Community in Olympia Washington.

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